But, Will This Work For Me? - You Wonder...

What if I were to tell you that, considerably more than anybody else, myself included - the answer to that question can only ultimately be determined by you? How can that be? Perhaps you now wonder... Well, that's because of the following...

 

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When Our Own Minds Work Against Us

You see, our minds are incredibly powerful. And while, no doubt, I'm sure that sounds like a "duh", well who didn't know that - moment... The relevance and depth to which that directly factors in to the degree of intensity, immensity, and longevity of our worst grieving - is largely oblivious to the lion's share of us Survivors. As it turns out, in our grieving, much of our decisioning and actions taken, happen in an auto-pilot state, of sorts.

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More specifically, many of our choices and reactions are subconscious in nature. As a result, we're not even consciously aware that a good percentage of those choices being made, and actions being taken tend to be contradictory, and even sabotaging, to what we say we want, where we say we want to get to, and what in reality would benefit us most. All happening, with our respective conscious minds - none the wiser...  

And what would cause us to so naturally and readily make such counter-productive and harmful choices, and regularly, willingly take such detrimental actions - subconsciously? Well, typically we owe that to all-too-common unsubstantiated, yet disturbing, stumbling blocks - such as inaccurate myths, beliefs, and assumptions about grief, fear of failure, concerns about what others might think, and fears of what all could go wrong - to name a few. All only further agitated, aggravated, and heightened by the ever-continuing deep psychological, emotional, and spiritual chaos that too often make our respective grieving processes drastically more hellish and imprisoning - than they truly ever needed to be..,

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So, as far as the question... To what degree can the very much unique, proven methodology and approach I've developed, honed, and utilized over the past decade plus, to help long-struggling, long-suffering Survivors relinquish the lion's share of their worst ongoing agony and anguish, and take back their lives - successfully help you do the same? What it ultimately comes down to is this...   

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Meaning... If you truly are sick and tired of all the immense pain, helplessness, darkness, and despair forever controlling and overwhelming your days... If you truly are open to more authentically believing there is a better path in life available for you, and authentically desiring that for yourself; and even believing you deserve to have that in your life... If you're truly ready to commit to not letting unproven grief myths and unsubstantiated fears continue to scare you, intimidate you, demoralize you, and psychologically block your way...

 

Your capacity for maximizing your long desired turnaround, and much-needed growth, in all this, and discovering your strongest sense of connection with your lost loved one, reclaiming your best possible relationships with your surviving loved ones, and successfully progressing towards your intended best life going forward from here... Not to mention making your lost loved one, looking in on you from above, most proud... (In a nutshell, what we mean when we say - New Destiny Grief Recovery and Healing...) With a pivotal caveat or two, is all very much attainable for you...  

 

As far as that caveat or two... First and foremost, you're 'gonna want to truly be open to seeking, learning, and incorporating the requisite new new insight, skill sets, secrets, tools, techniques, knowhow, guidance, and support - best positioning you for the least agonizing, least anguishing, most expedient, and strongest possible results for you. Second, you're 'gonna want to truly be open and committed to making the shifts within, necessary to foster the changes you want to see most in your surroundings, and in your life from here... Namely strongly desiring a very different life, far removed from the current existence, trapped, suffering, and struggling in such agony, darkness, toxicity, misery, hopelessness, and despair... And the good news is, since you're reading this... Your seeking component of the steps, mentioned above, could very well be already done, As long as, the insight being presented here is hitting home, and making much sense to you... ​

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So, if you're committed, we've got you! And even if you happen to be having some difficulty getting to the point where you are fully committed, believing in yourself to do what's needed, or even in believing you truly deserve the powerful life changes that can happen for you... No worries... Just say the word, and we've got you there too! Bottom line... We're here to expertly guide, equip, empower, and Coach you through all this. We're here to, as painlessly, and expediently as possible, show you the way!

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And before I forget... I'd be remiss if I didn't share a most important truism with you here - for you to keep in mind, and take heed of... Which is,,, Based on my decade plus of grief recovery experience and witnessed results, what I can tell you is... Becoming one of the Survivors who goes on to experience a strong turnaround, requisite growth, a truly revitalized sense of connection with your lost loved one, renewed loving relationships with surviving loved ones, and a high degree of grief relief, grief recovery, and healing in the near future - doesn't happen for you, without you straightaway becoming someone who presently buys-in to, and believes in, the true capacity that exists - for a meaningful turnaround to take place for you. Someone that believes that not only can it happen, but it is very much deserved... Someone that buys-in to, and believes, real change can, and will, start in earnest, once learning the necessary insight, skill sets, secrets, tools and knowhow - commences...

 

You need only be only be open, willing, and ready to proactively begin fighting on behalf of yourself, your surviving loved ones, your lost loved one's spirit - and what your lost loved one always wanted for you most in this life - to commence making it so...

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To that point... Remember, as discussed above... Our minds are incredibly powerful! So, as a result, we virtually never achieve anything we're already convinced can't be so. Unfortunately, I've come across this more times than I can count over the years... With Survivors, hopelessly psychologically trapped in the mindset that grief recovery and healing doesn't exist - and thus, there's nothing that can be done to change things. As a result, leaving themselves feeling even more demoralized, defeated, and hopelessly stuck. And the last thing I want for you, is to become, or perhaps go on being, one of the similarly demoralized, defeated, and hopelessly stuck - as well... I don't want that. And I'm hard-pressed to believe you want that. And I'm even more hard-pressed to believe your lost loved one would ever be good with that being the nature of your existence, from here either.

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By the way, a side question for you... Would you happen to know what color crows are? Just hold on to that answer for a bit - and we'll circle back around to it a little later.

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Now, How About A Bit Of Healing Perspective To Add To The Mix?

No doubt at least a time or two along the way of your grieving process, you've come across those making the claim that recovery and healing do no exist - right? If we were to think about that from a logical perspective however, it's not actually possible to prove that without having tried, and failed at every tactic, action, and response possible. And even then, it still wouldn't have been proven that recovery and healing do not exist, since any given attempt, or attempts, very much may have included a mistake, wrong step, or missed step or two along the way. As a result, essentially the only thing that would have been proven is that recovery and healing had failed to be achieved or experienced on that go-round.

 

Follow me on this analogy... Let's say decades back, long before the days of the internet, computers, and television... A man who'd lived in South America his whole life, found himself seriously questioning the rumored existence of a white substance that would seemingly magically float down from the sky, collect on the ground, for days at a time, glistening in the daylight, and lightening the night - until it simply vanished. After all, he'd lived for many years. And he'd checked with countless others over the years, many of them traveling to numerous other towns... Much the same as him, they hadn't seen or witnessed anything remotely like that either. So notably, a good number of them too had become convinced this seemingly mythical, beautiful falling white substance was just that; mythical.

 

Now, once they had come to that conclusion, did the existence of snow, under other situations and circumstances, better able to produce and accommodate said snow - cease? Well, of course not... The South American man's efforts, in no way, had proven the non-existence of the white substance. Only that neither he nor the countless others he'd spoken with had yet to, in their travels, witness or experience it...

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And so with that as a backdrop, I ask you... How different fundamentally are the nature of the proclamations you've heard along the way, about grief recovery and healing not existing and/or not being possible? Do you truly believe those who shared these conclusions truly had succeeded in fully disproving every possible route to a determination they existed, and therefore were possible, after all? Or otherwise, barring that, would it be more accurate that, truth be told... All they could have legitimately proclaimed was they've yet to, in their travels, witness or experience grief recovery and healing? 

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Still with me?

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Circling back around to that question I asked earlier, regarding the color of crows... I'm thinking your answer most likely was the same as mine was, when that question was presented to me some time back. Black of course, I thought... However it turns out that's not such a universal thing. And while I'd suspect most of us would assume crows are solely black, because that's all we've heard about, or seen... As rarely highlighted as they may be, non-black crows very much live, breathe, and fly - whether the masses have gotten the memo yet, or not... 

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And here's the thing... When it comes to proving something does exist, the burden of proof is completely different. So, what is that burden of proof for proving crows aren't exclusively black, and our initial premise or theory wrong? Merely the existence of one single, solitary, off-hued bird - of crow species... And what does any of this have to do with grief, recovery, or healing? Simply that the burden of proof for proving grief recovery and healing actually exists is much the same... It takes merely the existence of one single, solitary example of successful grief recovery and healing to have successfully been achieved - for that potential of grief recovery and healing to now and forever - be in effect.

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And well, to put it directly, I myself fully qualify as that requisite one single, solitary example of having successfully achieved the grief recovery and healing I've been speaking about. As does each and every one of the individual, initially struggling Survivors I've directly worked with, supported, Coached, equipped, guided, and empowered to proactively resuscitate, reclaim, and rejuvenate their very much worth-living lives again, sans whatever ever-overwhelming, decimating, and demoralizing agony, anguish, misery, hopelessness, guilt, and despair they'd been so helplessly stuck in - that have done the same....

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What It Comes Down To, In A Nutshell
Perhaps now the question in the back of your mind is... How could that degree of success possibly be? Well, the best way I can put in perspective - what makes our Accelerated Grief Recovery Methodology (and approach) so uniquely profound and effective at fostering such uncommon, life-altering turnarounds, and tangible results, for even long-struggling Survivors, is... Our highly-unique, homegrown method and approach directly takes into account, introduces the client or student to, and teaches them to most proactively address - the very much hidden root causes of much of our deepest, most paralyzing, core anguish and pain. Where, quite frankly, the lion's share of alternative efforts out there - don't...                 

 

You see, what four and a half years of my own extended, grueling grieving, later followed by over a decade's experience Coaching and supporting struggling Survivors, clearly taught, and time and time again - has shown me, is... In reality, the origin and drivers of quite a bit of our worst continued suffering, anguish, and despair, tends to have little to nothing directly to do with the particular loved ones we've lost. Instead this is crushing overwhelm generated, for which the event of losing our respective cherished loved ones, is neither central to, nor indicative of, the immense pain we end up suffering.

 

And as strange as that likely sounds, becoming considerably more aware, knowledgeable, and equipped to best address and mitigate this extraneous grieving, of sorts - is absolutely key. With this non-essential, incremental toxic suffering and struggle that we unintentionally and unknowingly foster within ourselves - being neither natural, necessary, nor a direct derivative of our respective loved ones no longer being here in the same manner, on the same physical plane with us - as they used to be... Disruptive and sabotaging in every way not only to our overall status - but also to the considerably healthier, much more healing grief processing actions we should instead be undertaking... 

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As it turns out, this tends to represent a particularly sizeable segment of our most grueling and intractable grief suffering and struggling. A whole other segment of our grieving process, necessitating very different awareness, very different thinking, and very different solutions, in order to successfully address and ultimately resolve... Which happens to be why our highly-unique methodology and approach is so deeply-rooted in the comprehension of, and the teaching of best practices for responding to, such non-traditional grieving impacts as - the inner workings of our human nature, the untold impact of our societal conditioning, and the impact of unconscious, deep psychological fears, and associated angst...

 

That's because typically it's the distortion and sabotage of these, that most disrupts and debilitates the perceptions growing from having lost our respective much-loved, loved ones - producing some of our most agonized, anguished, devastated, and marred thoughts, feelings, fears, and reactions from there... And that's what typically drastically exacerbates the depth, degree, and duration of our much of our most immense grieving. And thus, that what tends to render our psychological, emotional, and spiritual states to grow considerably more daunting, hopeless and demoralized - than it ever otherwise needed to be.

 

And, you know what? As long as that continues to be the baseline state of thinking and being for the Survivor, pretty much, no matter what else is being done to endeavor to address the core grief, directly associated with the cherished loved one's life lost... It's simply not very likely there's going to be a whole lot of lasting growth and meaningful progress that can be expected. 

 

To the contrary, that only more convincingly set us on the road to further darkness, woe, and perceived powerlessness - where ultimately the prevailing thought is there's nothing that can be done, indiscriminate and limitless suffering and pain is the only foreseeable path forward, and so we readily acquiesce, and buy-in, to defeatist myths and unsubstantiated fears... And from that headspace, any notion of grief recovery and healing, will forever be squashed - and not permitted to stand. All this toxically working against us, and keeping us stuck in devastating pain... All this tragically continuing to rob us of the tremendously more worth living, empowered, joyous, and fulfilling lives that could be so - were we to opt for a much more empowered road...

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And, if in all honesty, the first half of the previous paragraph, sounds more than a bit too familiar to you... Might I strongly suggest - for You, for your life and your prospects from here, for your surviving loved ones, for fostering the strongest sense of connection, peace of mind, and pride with and from your lost loved one's spirit, and for all that your lost loved one ever wanted for you most... That whatever you do... Don't just choose to continue to endeavor to avoid, acquiesce - and be okay just staying on that road... If you need help and direction, proactively seek that help and direction. Whether here, or anywhere else you can find that truly works for you - and maximizes the love and pride shared with your much cherished loved one, taken too soon...

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You, your life, those you continue to love, and the causes and purposes you care about most, are all far too important, to ever let fear, falsehoods, angst, doubts, or anything else for that matter - cause you to give up the fight!

 

And, as a quick, powerful reminder for that fight...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Grief recovery and healing does exist, and most definitely is possible for you! Providing much needed relief, peace of mind, and the knowledge and wherewithal to breakaway from the lion's share of your continued suffering and struggling... Not to mention, just the kind of healthier, much brighter, more inspired, and more loving life, that your lost loved one, who always wanted the best for you in this life - would most assuredly want for you and your future most... You see that, right??!!

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So, what do you say?
Because now you know, it doesn't happen for you, until you open your arms, mind, and heart to true and lasting grief relief, grief recovery, and healing being legitimate and attainable objectives for you - the benefits of which you most definitely and undeniably you deserve in this life. And it doesn't happen until you truly commit to the process of learning how to best navigate, resolve, and otherwise redirect those toxic, detrimental, sabotaging subconscious thoughts, fears, and residual unsubstantiated roadblocks - away. Allowing you to finally freely see the potential and opportunity around you, for what it truly can be... And, as a result, best formulate your most advantageous and empowered choices and responses from here...

 

So, with all that in mind... Isn't it high-time you learned a much healthier, much less agonizing, considerably more effective way - to deal with all of this - and, once and for all, begin to successfully get your intended best life back again? And should yes be your answer... Or otherwise, should reading this empowering insight have risen your curiosity, interest, and hopes - causing you to want to hear, learn, and understand more... I strongly encourage you to checkout the following link to... Learn About Our Stronger Than Grief Breakthrough Call. 

 

Either way, what's really pivotal here is you beginning to care enough about getting your intended best life back, and learning to  stop deep grief from continuing to debilitate you, and drive you to forfeit your life like this anymore. So much so, that you become pre-disposed to opportunistically assess any potentially viable option - and its chances of moving you closer to that all-important life-changing goal... So much so, that it essentially makes the question of whether you should learn more about, and signup for, our no-cost Stronger Than Grief Breakthrough Consultation Call, to see and experience exactly how it can make a difference in your grief - a veritable no-brainer...

 

So, why not go ahead and take that not so huge, yet courageous step out of your conform zone - and get yourself scheduled for your very own private, 1-on-1, confidential, no-cost, no strings attached, phone consultation, with a New Destiny Grief Recovery Coach. Because if you think you're feeling more empowered now, just wait and see how much more so you'll feel after experiencing just a bit of our highly-unique approach to deep-grief, firsthand - and just how much stronger you'll feel too!

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There's no reason to keep on suffering and struggling this way any longer than you necessarily need to. And absolutely nothing to lose, and everything to potentially gain in jumping on the most uplifting, informative, and potentially life-changing call on grief you've ever had... With the likely bonus of feeling noticeably less agonized, anguished, and stuck on the other side of it...

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Again, you need only click on the link above, to learn more about our one-of-a-kind, complimentary Breakthrough Consultation Call - and to signup for greater peace of mind, inspiration, and eye-opening insight for best making it through all this... 

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