Perhaps you’ve been entrapped in such struggle for so long now, that for as much as you’d like to believe things can get better… At this point, you can’t fathom just how that could even happen now…
 

Consider this however… What if we could help you begin to envision the very real potential for a seismic shift in your life? What if, via one of our eye-opening Breakthrough Consultation Calls, you could viscerally experience firsthand - just how tremendously freeing and empowering the right insight, skill sets, and knowhow can prove to be? What if that simple 45-minute, complimentary call would considerably expand your peace of mind, will, direction, and clarity on your very best next steps to take? And finally, what if all that fosters a huge breakthrough for you in your grieving process? Much like so many other consultation participants over the years… And much the very reason our Breakthrough Consultation Call earned its name in the first place...

The truth is, for too long now, you’ve been trying to fight this brutal, demoralizing, and, at times, all-consuming battle – essentially with both hands tied behind your back. Most likely, having been equipped with little to no credible knowledge, preparation, knowhow, nor accurate awareness of what all to expect. The truth is due to the highly disturbing potential for paralyzing fear, anguish, torment, distress, and despair, societally we’ve been conditioned to treat death, loss, and grief as some of life’s biggest third rails. Third rail, referencing the live rail or electric rail used for back-in-the-day mass transit systems – potentially fatal to the touch… And thus, the term ‘third rail’ representing something we intensively stay away from at all costs…

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So societally, we become conditioned to steer clear of the topics death, loss, and grief; as much as humanly possible. Early on, it becomes abundantly clear that these aren’t exactly topics for dinner table discussion.

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What these are – are inconvenient realities of life. Inconvenient realities we’d just as soon push deep, deep down and ignore; least dark, unspeakable, traumatizing thoughts and questions about things like our mortality, the mortality of those we love most, the randomness of it all, and the ultimate fearful unknown of what happens from there – need to be directly faced. And so, whether consciously or unconsciously, we get really good at sidestepping and avoiding, as best we possibly can…            

    

That is until the inevitable happens… You lose one of your most cherished loved ones.

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But of course, once that happens, you no longer have the luxury of addressing those darkest, mortifying fears proactively and on your own terms. And no longer do you get the opportunity to independently face, and work through, the immense weight of all the associated angst, anguish, and fear you’ve worked to evade, even if subconsciously - for so long.

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Instead, as a newly crushed and devastated griever, with absolutely no idea how you’re going to survive receiving the excruciating news, for the very first time – that your cherished loved one’s very life has been taken… You get the unenviable honor of having all that abruptly resurfaced, undealt with angst, distress, anguish, and paralyzing fear connected with death, loss, and grieving - heaped right on top of all the excruciating pain, sorrow, devastation, torment, and the mortifying emptiness left behind; in the stead of who ‘should’ still be here.

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Within those early days, you’re feeling the most rocked, overwhelmed, disillusioned, demoralized, and, as anguishing as it might be to admit, vulnerable as you’ve ever been. Unprepared doesn’t cover it. And before you even know it’s happened, there you are immersed in the most defeating, confusing, grueling, helpless, and hopeless days of your life… With considerably more struggle and suffering to come…

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You see, at that point, you don’t realize – you have no idea of what you still don’t even know. You know some things you think, or perhaps even, are pretty convinced you know… However, even some of those are most likely to be very much unsubstantiated myths, misconceptions, and/or toxic ingrained beliefs, destined to cause you considerably more debilitation and anguish down the road.

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Despite the extent of suffering, we’re already consumed in, by this stage, and the complete lack of working ideas popping into our heads – as to how to diminish the driving agony, anguish and despair… Far too seldom do we ever opt for the beneficial side of that most important, fork-in-the-road decision – deciding to seek much-needed, essential grief expertise and direction. Nope. Most often, instead we again opt for avoidance, minimizing the knowledge, experienced resources, and potential to mitigate the ever-deepening misery and immense pain – that would otherwise be available to us.

 

Whether that’s because of the vulnerability mentioned earlier, and concern about what others might think… Or perhaps you managed to convince yourself that you deserved this agony and pain for some reason, or perhaps that it would be betraying your lost loved one, taking steps to be better, or perhaps even that there’s nothing anything or anybody could do to help make things better… What’s crucial to note here - is none of these rather common concerns, nor any of the others presented over my past 10+ years, working with struggling Survivors - have panned out, or proven out, as legitimate justifications to warrant intentionally staying so immersed in this godforsaken pain and misery. Which your lost loved one would never want… And most certainly, for you not to be so, in his or her name…

 

So, as a rule, I would submit to you that Justifications for staying immersed in deep pain and misery are the last thing you want, or truly need… No. You’ve been mired here in this daunting, damning, unforgiving, and hopeless space long enough. What you need is a successful pathway out of that.

And therein lies the massive impact of obtaining the right caliber grief recovery expertise, guidance, and support. Not only equipping you with the vital skill sets, secrets, and knowhow needed for successful recovery and healing, but also maximizing your will, motivation, and sense of empowerment for getting there… Not to mention, fostering the mitigation of continuing distress, anxiety, despair, frustration, lulls in confidence, emotional anguish and turmoil, toxic and sabotaging thoughts, and debilitating fears – as well…

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Just pause to consider that for a few… Can you imagine how much less overwhelming and distressing it would be to be equipped and empowered with that kind of mindset and skills? And what about no longer having to bear the immense burden of all those corrosive, depleting pain-points constantly? Can you imagine just how freeing and life-changing that would be?

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Well, what if it’s pretty easy for you to start to get an inkling of it? You see… That’s just the level of grief recovery expertise, guidance, and support you’ll get to be introduced to – once you register for a private 1-on-1, complimentary, grief-shifting, phone consultation.

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What do you think? Doesn’t that sound like the kind of support that you could use a bit of - in your corner? Because all it takes from here is opening yourself up to getting a little long-overdue expertise and direction in all this – and taking the courageous step to sign-up and schedule yourself for one of our complimentary, life changing, Stronger Than Grief Breakthrough Consultation Calls. Just show up for your call, from the comfort of your home, or any quiet, conducive space - with an open mind and an open heart. And just see how you and your thoughts, feelings, and mindset are impacted by the end of your one-of-a-kind, eye-opening, empowering Stronger Than Grief Breakthrough Consultation…