About New Destiny Grief Recovery Coaching
And Stronger Than Grief

Collectively we specialize in demystifying and disbanding the most debilitating grief myths, misconceptions, and incongruities - debilitating, anguishing, and paralyzing Survivors in long-standing, immense misery, agony, and despair. So, if that sounds like where you happen to find yourself at this juncture in your grieving process... And you're in need of empowering insight, solutions, and a proven pathway for, once and for all, breaking free from the clutches of all this... If learning the way to successfully commence re-embracing and reclaiming your intended best life, hope for the future, and sense of purpose, empowerment, and fulfillment in your days - sounds like much-needed improvement you need in your life... If a considerably healthier, far less agonizing, and more peaceful and loving way of living this life, that best honors the life, love, and legacy of your very much missed and cherished loved one, lost too soon - has defined you and your life, for far too long now...

 

Then, it's time to give yourself the permission to discover the path to recovery and healing, and open up to becoming more inspired, believing in, and working towards brighter days. It's time to commence to taking steps to learn more - such as thoroughly digging in to this eye-opening and empowering 14ReasonsToHeal.com website, asking questioning, requesting a quick introductory chat, joining our private Stronger Than Grief group on Facebook, signing up for one of our complimentary 1-on-1 Stronger Than Grief Breakthrough Consultation Calls, getting our '14 Reasons You're Not Letting Yourself Heal' self-help grief transformation book, signing up for our complimentary online "Grief, A Better Way" mini-class, becoming a student in our "Lasting Grief Relief In Just Eight Weeks" online program,  and/or becoming a private New Destiny Grief Recovery Coaching Client... 

 

And why are those steps key? Because the awesome news I have for you is... You're here... Which means you've managed to find the perfect starting place! In other words, if dramatic change in the way deep grief has been, for far too long now, consuming and controlling you and your life - is what you're truly looking for... You need only be a bit courageous today, and get started by truly opening up to much-needed, long overdue new awareness, insight, guidance and help.

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The Massive Change New Destiny Brings

 

Having developed a powerful, one-of-a-kind approach for proactive grief recovery and healing, our groundbreaking, results-driven, Accelerated Grief Recovery Methodology offers the most effective mindset and pathway for best equipping and empowering you to transition through even your deepest, most agonizing and debilitating deep grief factors and triggers... And, in an expedited fashion, guide you back to more healthy, loving, hopeful, unstuck, and no longer helplessly derailed life.

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And, in the end, what our remarkable, unparalleled outcomes are most predicated on is an amazingly simple, counter-intuitive principle... Which is - there's nothing, per se, wrong with you.  Newsflash... You're not a mess, a failure, a lost cause, crazy, broken, damaged, nor unworthy. What you are is grieving. Still grieving, and not yet having learned the requisite personal development, in the form of game-changing, essential grief recovery insight, skill sets, secrets, tools, techniques, and knowhow - to much more effectively, proactively, and expeditiously foster maximized grief recovery, healing, and just as importantly, re discovered and reclaimed a sense of control, normalcy, and peace of mind in your everyday life, once again. 

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And, given the severity to which deep grief’s downstream excruciating pain, overwhelm, guilt, sheer panic, emptiness, despair, and hopelessness – consumes countless grief-stricken lives, in the worst of cases leading to Survivor suicides, jobs, careers, and livelihoods lost, houses/homes lost, destroyed families, marriages, and relationships, physical, psychological, and emotional issues and illnesses, and unnecessarily forfeited lives... The criticality and need for long-suffering Survivors to have access to powerful healing insight and knowhow capable of ending the bulk of that, in its tracks - cannot be overstated for long-suffering Survivors.

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And Yet Even More Impact Working With Us Brings
And then there's the slew of downstream growth opportunities. You see, beyond equipping and empowering you to decidedly mitigate any continuing agony, anguish, overwhelm, and despair, along with equipping and empowering you to maximize your grief recovery and healing - which is a tremendous enough outcome as it is... By working with New Destiny, even more, you'll learn to considerably better comprehend, enable, and effectively manage, your overall mindset, mentality, thinking and outcomes.

 

In turn, generating a slew of incredibly liberating, life-enriching potential for your life as a whole - and not merely limited to by-products of the grief. Consider maximizing the very real potential to get your intended life back, cease to carry guilt and self-blame, gain a greater sense of empowerment, self-esteem, confidence, and self-determination, regain an openness, and true desire, for maximizing potential, purpose, happiness, and fulfillment in life again - without associated feelings of guilt anymore. feel lovingly reconnected with self, family, and friends again, foster improved psychological, emotional, and spiritual health. and last but not least, commence living a life that best honors, represents, and makes your lost one eternally proud - each and every time he or she looks in on you... For the remainder of your days living for two, and feeling more connected with your loved one than ever...

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So, if it makes perfect sense to you that learning how to manage and respond to the worst of your grief in a much more proficient way, would most certainly improve your results, and sufficiently lessen the anguish and agony on the backend...  And if it further translates that little to nothing would make your lost loved one happier for, and more proud of, you - than you, once and for all, trading this ever-torturous, debilitating existence, for a life considerably more rooted in true happiness, well-being, purpose, and potential... Think about it... What would make your lost loved one's spirit happier?

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And the great news is... Acquiring that vital capacity to finally take your life back in your hands, and starting to accomplish the very life-resurrecting accomplishments being discussed, is just down the proverbial road from you beginning to buy-in that life can significantly change for the better, with the right guidance, help. and commitment to learning the aforementioned vital insight, skill sets, secrets, tools, and knowhow - equipping and empowering the seismic growth to come.

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About The Author & Coach

Welcome. I’m Coach D Anthony, and I’m a Grief Recovery and Empowerment Coach. My personal mission is to fundamentally alter the corrosive attitudes, conversation, and ingrained beliefs associated with death and grief, freeing Survivors from merely surviving in the shadows, burying their feelings for fear of negative reaction, and needlessly continuing to succumb to the excruciating and debilitating pain, heartache, loneliness, guilt, sorrow, and hopelessness.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I’m here as your Coach and confidant, to instill the little-known insights, skill sets, secrets, tools, and techniques necessary to eradicate the crushing pain, misery and despair of deep grief – and to show you the way back to feeling whole again, confident, empowered, inspired, worthy, and ready to take on, and even excel at, whatever life puts in front of you. Just say the word, and we’ll work together to make you truly - Stronger Than Grief.

 

 

 

 

 

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What I Really Do

Some time back, as an assignment for business developmental education I took, I sent out a query to some of my Grief Recovery Coaching Clients... Considering their time working with me and results, I asked them in a few words, what was their best simple, straightforward explanation of exactly what it is I do. And my absolute favorite response... The one that viscerally hit me, bringing a tear to my eye - was this one... So, while officially I am a Grief Recovery and Empowerment Coach, when it's time for you to truly commence facing, and working through, deep grief's darkest and most daunting storms... What you can most advantageously expect to have on your side is your very own  Life Saving Trusted Advisor & Grief Warrior.

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Best Client-Assigned Job Title Ever!

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Thanks again, Janet!

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When Grief Became My Life

It wouldn't surprise me if, reading that title, you assumed it was referencing the godforsaken day I excruciatingly realized my cherished loved one had just breathed for the last time. In my case, that being my epitome of an incredibly-loving, sometimes sacrificing to a fault, cherished Mom -, whom I would have readily given my life for...

 

But, this isn't about that horrid, soul-crushing day. While that day would drive much personal overwhelm, havoc, anguish, and despair, as I suffered in the tsunami that is deep grief, for the next 4 1/2 years or so... It wasn't until about fifteen years after that initial godforsaken day, that grief unexpectedly usurped, and wholeheartedly took over my life - for good!

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And, as a result of those incredibly fateful seconds, on that hugely fateful day... I'm pretty proud and humbled to acknowledge not only the considerable amount of rather amazing, life-affirming impacts, turnarounds, and outcomes there have been in the decade plus of days that have ensued... But, also the sheer degree of these changes, and highly-consequential extent to which they have made such fundamental, dramatic, and lasting changes in previously helplessly suffering Survivors' lives... In turn, going on to fostered such meaningful change within their surviving loved ones' lives as well...

 

A heartwarming sampling of which, is reflected in the heartfelt testimonial excerpts below...

 

 

 

 

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Absolutely No Time For 'Resting On Laurels' Here Though 

So, absolutely... From successfully enabling long-suffering Survivors to relinquish their most agonizing misery and pain, and establish a real sense of control, direction, and empowerment in their lives again - to introducing evolutionary best practice advances for breaking free from deep grief's most debilitating psychological and emotional torment... From the development of our groundbreaking Accelerated Grief Recovery Methodology, and our uniquely life-resurrecting, '14 Reasons' grief transformation book - to the grateful Survivors out there who credit our work with them as the reason their lives were spared to even still be here today... The result of having supplanted their gut-wrenching decision to remove themselves from this life, with a much better path and solution, that best remembers, represents, and honors their lost loved ones... A path and solution giving them all the reason in the world to continue living... Most importantly, with their respective lost loved ones lovingly in tow... For the remainder of their lives, living for two...

 

So, over the last decade plus, much has been achieved - to be both proud of, and humbled by. Despite all the good done on behalf of the many helped over the years... Truth be told, lasting satisfaction is yet to be experienced to its fullest extent, because never far from my mind, are the many who weren't reached. So many unwittingly still paralyzed in turmoil, who very well could have seen most of their agony, anguish, torment, and despair successfully relinquished as well. Had they only been more open to learning to perceive, navigate, and respond to all this, in profoundly more empowered ways...

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For instance, beginning to envision failed past attempts to turn things around as a sign, not of grief being invincible... Not of themselves being powerless to change things... Not of a lifetime of agony and anguish being their unescapable fate... Or anything nearly as daunting and set in stone, as any of that... But instead, simply as a sign of not yet having learned the actions that need to be taken to maximize grief recovery and healing from deep grief... Prompting the need for greater openness to embrace a new, more empowered mindset and approach to grief... A mindset and approach capable of helping propel Survivors beyond the seemingly never-ending, grueling rollercoaster of misery, despair, hopelessness, and pain... A mindset and approach facilitating a much healthier, more empowered, gratifying, loving, purposeful, and connected life...

 

And here's the thing... The potential for such a seismic shift in your grief, and in your life - is right here and now, in all likelihood, as readily accessible and attainable for you, as it has ever been. You need only be courageous enough to take a step or two out of your comfort zone, be open to learning a better way, and be willing to fight for the brighter days you so deserve. As well as, the brighter days your lost loved one's spirit most assuredly desires for You most in this life.,,

 

If all this still feels a bit concerning... If it feels like it all requires a huge leap of faith... Then, I've got a monumental paradigm shift, comprised of three core realizations, I need to share - that should definitively simplify, and nullify, any such angst and fear.

 

Those realizations are... First and foremost, you are nowhere near as incapable of, and powerless in, fundamentally shifting grief's control and devastation over your life, as you've likely come to believe. Second, what's unwittingly most blocking any real progress to speak of - is likely some combination of fear, not knowing what needs to be done, and/or feelings of some form of perceived guilt. Falsely believing you getting better is not deserved, or a rightful thing - for example... Each of which is perfectly neutralizable via obtaining the right grief recovery expertise and support... And last but not least, perhaps the most essential truth of all is... The absolute last thing your lost loved one would ever want for you, in this life - is you helplessly and hopelessly indeterminately stuck in such psychological and emotional agony, anguish, decimation, and despair. For the most part, pretty much just existing... A far cry from the very best light he or she always saw in, and wanted most for, you...

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However, the empowering news you get to take stock and comfort in, from all of this is... There's no longer a need to ever feel perpetually doomed, engulfed, powerless, or stuck in deep grief's wretched, abysmal clutches again. Now you know there is a more effective way. Now you know you need only be open, ready and willing to learn how to make real, lasting change happen - and be committed to taking the steps to get you there... 

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My Backstory, And Your Potential Story From Here

To better appreciate your potential from here, sharing a bit more of my backstory with grief should actually help. You see, from being absolutely rocked by the excruciating loss of my Mom, to being consumed and overwhelmed over the next 4 1/2 years, or so, as a devastated, anguished, grief-stricken son, to being abruptly blind-sided by the gut-wrenching realization I'd just spent those 4 1/2 years, or so, unwittingly woefully triggering just about the most unacceptable, unconscionable outcome imaginable. A most jarring, unforgiveable, and untenable consequence of my very own not so up to par choices and  actions... The result, horrifying affliction, brought upon the absolute last intended, least deserving of all, the responsibility for which, I disturbingly got now - was mine, and mine only, to bear...

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In effect, this was rock bottom for me, and my grieving process - requiring a posthaste, absolute mandatory need to cease and desist most everything I had been doing; and a 'no holes barred' discovery of a much more effective way. Simply put, failure could not be an option.

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You see, out of the blue, like a ton of bricks, my awful epiphany would come crashing down on me! Knowing my Mom, the way I knew her, and the extent to which she always loved and yearned for the very best in life for me... There was zero doubt in my mind that, knowing I was painfully, miserably, and hopelessly stuck for those 4 1/2 years, or so - meant, in all likelihood, the whole time, she had been accordingly just as stuck, intensely and helplessly anguished over me, where she was. Unwittingly, I had caused that. And no way, no how, was I ever going to allow that continue to be the case!

 

No. One way or the other, I needed to figure out a way to abruptly derail all that ominous, morbid, powerless struggling and suffering I'd been so mired in. I needed to, without delay, finally begin reclaiming both myself, and my intended life. Anything else would mean my Mom continuing to suffer...

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So, with that newly-discovered, critical obligation and resulting mission, now heavily-weighing on my psyche and shoulders... (I mean, how could I have not realized so much sooner - me staying trapped in agony and anguish, was doing nothing but keeping her stuck much the same?) Regardless of all that however, whatever it took, a legitimate way to free myself from deep grief's clutches needed to be found, so my Mom would finally be freed!

 

And so, as quickly as possible, that's exactly what I would go on to do! You see, as it turns out... It's pretty amazing just how readily even long-held perceived limitations, doubts, and shortcomings can, and will, dissolve - when we are faced with the crucial need to protect a most cherished loved one from suffering even greater harm.  

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Ultimately, I would go on to develop a powerful new approach and mentality for proactively derailing my decimating years of struggle, and beginning to decisively reclaim my intended life again. In turn, fostering the most authentic and joyous sense of connection, love, and pride, shared with my Mom's spirit - I'd ever known. With those feelings continuing to this very day...

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And further promising my Mom to make her many more times over, that much prouder of me... In her name, I committed to equipping, teaching, and empowering struggling Survivors to minimize their suffering, reclaim their best lives, and feel more lovingly connected to their lost loved ones - too! Which is exactly what I've been doing for the past 10+ years now...

 

And yes, you read that right! The very same powerful mindset and methodology capable of best equipping and empowering you to get your no longer anguished, and considerably brighter, more purposeful, and inspired life back, also maximizes your solace, love, and connection shared with your lost loved one too... So, what do you say? Time we upped your passion for more loving and fulfilling days going forward? That's what you lost loved one would want most for you - don't you think?

 

Given you wouldn't be here reading this, if relinquishing your ongoing agony, anguish, and despair wasn't a pivotal need in your life... And given what's being presented here is, no doubt, the best opportunity for success currently on the proverbial table... It likely would behoove you to check out the following - for more on how the background and expertise I've amassed over these 10+ years, best positions you for hugely empowered results and turnarounds. The likes of which, you don't even yet realize you can achieve...

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By this point in your explorations here at 14ReasonsToHeal.com.., Here's hoping that after painfully and miserably struggling and suffering so deeply, for so long now - that the very real potential and capacity to dramatically transform your days and existence - is something you are more than ready to hear and learn all about. Particularly when there's no longer a need to remain so entrapped in so much grueling agony, anguish, misery, and despair anymore...

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However if, perhaps before diving into more detail about the specific grief relief, grief recovery, and healing options, courses. and programs we have available for you, it would be helpful to first appreciate a bit more of just how fundamentally unique our approach and methodology are - from pretty much everything else out there... Which, by the way, also speaks to the reason for our unparalleled results... I invite you to take a bit of a detour, to get a greater sense of just how transformational and empowering this new mindset, approach, and methodology truly could be for you and your recovery and healing. So by all means, take a listen to this very telling, pretty wide-ranging, grief-shifting insight and perspective - I shared in this "Let's Talk About Grief" interview sometime back... 

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What Direction Does Your Life Go From Here?

 

So now, with all the new life-altering, grief transformation insight and perspective shared on this page, and throughout this 14 Reasons To Heal website, the core questions become... What do you truly desire, and need, to have happen in your grieving and in your life from here? And what are you motivated and committed enough to do to foster that kind of change?

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And, now that you are equipped with the empowering awareness that you actually do possess a real choice in all this... The driving choice, as it turns out... And, now that you're aware there indeed are proven, guided, empowered alternative paths available to you that free you from staying powerlessly immersed in such forever consuming, controlling, and overwhelming agony, anguish, fear, guilt, darkness, helplessness, hopelessness, and despair...

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The direction your life takes from here is now firmly in your hands - and very much up to you! More than ever, you realize you are the one that's actually in the driver's seat for successfully changing your fate, from a deep grief perspective. Right here and now, it's primarily your prerogative whether you will choose to adopt a much more concerted, empowered, effective, considerably less excruciation producing approach towards your grieving process going forward. You will decide whether or not you'll opt to commence proactively seeking, embracing, and learning the essential new grief insight, skill sets, secrets, tools, techniques, and know-how, that you've unknowingly needed, up until now - and have unwittingly been painfully, debilitatingly, and demoralizingly suffering the absence of, for so long now in all of this. With you finally realizing that it's been the lack of this essential knowledge, capabilities, and proficiency, and not grief, in and of itself - that's doomed each and every attempt at true progress in all this, all this time...

 

All this leaving you with two fundamentally opposite paths to choose from... You can choose to put yourself on the path to becoming immensely more capable and empowered in all this, and in your life as a whole from here - or instead, not to...

 

First, there's deciding you, your life from here, and what your lost loved one would want absolutely most for you truly matters to you - and is truly worth fighting for... And that tremendously less time entrapped in the agonizing and anguishing clutches of deep grief, successfully reclaiming your very best life and potential moving forward, and forging your most loving, deepest, gratitude-centered strongest connection with your lost loved one's spirit - is no doubt just the kind of empowerment and change you want driven in your life.              

 

Second, there's simply putting off, ignoring, and avoiding taking a step to proactively do anything to turn things around. , Essentially, refraining from even attempting to commence freeing ourselves from the unnecessarily dark, decimated, debilitated, tormented, guilt-ridden, and painful existence we've been so trapped in... In effect, choosing a response seemingly unfazed and completely unmoved by all the notions of empowerment and greater potential in life presented. A response seemingly implying the conclusion you, your life from here, and what your lost loved one would want absolutely most for you - isn't worth putting up the fight for...  

 

In the process, stifling any potential to generate maximum capacity, know-how, and empowerment to take control of your life back from deep grief. For all intensive purposes, just sitting out your best opportunity and means of, once and for all, learning to free yourself from the lion's share of agony, anguish, and despair you've been struggling with. In turn, over time, sadly leading to a more and more self-defeatist mentality associated with grief, along with ever-more self-defeatist driven results...

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Ultimately, all that's to say... What I truly wish for you most, is that you utilize the new insight and empowerment introduced above to seek out experienced, competent expertise to provide the requisite insight, skill sets, secrets, tools, and knowhow to get you back on a positive track in your life again, best representing and honoring your lost loved one, and very much focused on living your best life, once again. Just the way your lost loved one would want for you, as well... And that's whether that most crucial, life-changing, and highly-empowering knowledge and direction is by way of us, via New Destiny Grief Recovery Coaching and Stronger Than Grief - or via some alternate competent and capable grief recovery expertise you identify...

               

What's however, at least if you a truly have a desire to finally cease such grueling suffering, struggling, and unnecessarily forfeiting the irreplaceable days out of your life, this way... Is that you, as soon as humanly possible - commence learning the requisite steps and changes it takes to proactively:

• begin greatly lightening deep grief's oppressive load in your life

• substantially dissipating the crushing agony, anguish, hopelessness, and despair 

• cease feeling guilty, and like an absolutely horrible person - at the mere thought of wanting to truly live life again; and even worse at the notion of living your life in a truly purposeful, fulfilling, and joyous way

• eliminating the fear, and perceived need for avoidance - that's kept you subconsciously stuck, worried, and anxious, and you continuing to kick the proverbial can down the proverbial road; and thus staying stuck

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Each of which is entirely possible, by the way, with the help of the right grief recovery expertise, guidance, and support. And most amazingly, all in a way that decidedly strengthens your sense of connection, love, solace, gratitude, dedication, and pride shared with, and on behalf of, your lost loved one. Not to mention, best positioning you to best show tribute to, honor, and commemorate your lost loved one for the remainder of your days too.            

 

So, if that all sounds like a much more preferable way to process, and deal with, your grief... And if that sounds like a much more preferable path for you to take to more successfully navigate all this... If the idea of doing nothing at all, at this point, to take back a greater sense of control in your life again - is just as unthinkable a choice for you, as it was for me when I faced much the same choice, so many years back, at the height of some of my deepest suffering... Then, it's high-time you began learning more specifics about our uniquely-inspiring, uplifting, and empowering grief relief, recovery, and healing offerings - to best determine the optimal solution path for you... Get to know all about our primary offerings by clicking - here...

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